Mister, I thought I left a tribute to you here yesterday but it has never posted and so perhaps you will have two tributes from me and that is fine as you are deserving of them.
I remain ever grateful that you hired me in 1991 as a Lahainaluna Boarding Department Counselor. I thank you for giving me scoldings when I needed them and for your constant encouragement which I came to realize were the two sides of the same coin and an essential part of how you looked at life. You remain the best principal I ever worked for and also a friend I have treasured for 30-plus years. You always found a way to get the best out of people and your leadership in doing so was a constant example to me.
I have never forgotten the day that you succinctly provided me with my job description. “Katy,’ you said. “Your job is to get the best out of these kids, not the worst. If you are getting the worst out of them then you’re doing something wrong and you need to rethink how you are dealing with them.” I have always remembered those words and they served me well during my 15 years at the dorm, as they do to this day.
Thank you to you and Maureen for always taking care of me and for the many wonderful conversations and meals we shared. I always considered myself a boarder, too, albeit an older one, and I thank you and Maureen for your enthusiasm toward making Lahainaluna my home for so many years. I am grateful that after I returned to the mainland in 2005 to care for my elderly mother that you and I continued to be faithful letter-writing correspondents (though deciphering your handwriting remained challenging— most who worked with you would agree on that last point!
Your greatest legacy will always be found in the lives you touched through your guidance your direction, and your example. Those lives number in the hundreds and we will miss you so. Aloha Oe, Mister.
Katy Greer
Missouri